EnergiseR2 wrote: ↑Mon May 30, 2022 7:43 am
Guy Smiley wrote: ↑Mon May 30, 2022 6:03 am
Women bear the consequences AND the responsibility…
For sure, adequate counselling is part of the support that should be provided…
And that’s it. Support, not judgement or control.
I think that is way too simple these days. Men also bear the responsibilities and consequences. Foisted on them by the courts or willingly but same result. Well granted the former can be difficult to get stick
I knew someone would try and argue the whole 'not all men' angle...
sure. I paid child support through the West Australian Family Court system for 18 years. I'm very familiar with the sense of disadvantage some men feel at being held accountable for fathering a child. There are apocrypha;l stories of men being taken for a ride by women hell bent on some form of revenge for the act of having them yelp with pleasure for a too short moment in their otherwise desecrated and friendless lives.
I have one of those stories.
It takes nothing away from what I'm saying... women bear the responsibility. Some guys are great spouses and do a wonderful job, and they are the outliers.
Juat about every poster in here has, at some stage, expressed the joy and relief of getting away from the family and having a night / weekend / regular jaunts to whereever with the boys. It's what men do because they aspire to it, in the main. The women run the house and manage the kids.