Re: Where are you on the whole gender thing?
Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2023 9:48 pm
A place where escape goats go to play
https://notplanetrugby.com/
The thing that pisses me off is the use of the 'what if' type issues that then focus very specific and often rare extremes and often ignore the reality of the world we live in. When one of my kids was young and at nursery, about 25 years ago, a couple of middle class Edinburgh mums got a bee in their bonnet about one of the male nursery nurses being gay and putting their child at 'risk'. Meetings and emails arose, temperatures went up and it wasn't edifying to say the least. I was furious about the bigoted behaviour and some even wanted the poor nursery guy sacked. I took great joy in telling them that statistically their husbands were more likely to abuse their kids than a gay nursery nurse and how did they know that their husbands could be trusted. I also suggested that the private schools that many planned to send their kids to had a dubious reputation to say the least when it came to child abuse. To say I wasn't popular is an understatement! Over 90% of child abuse is perpetrated by a parent, relative or family friend and c90% of women are raped by someone they know usually an acquaintance or a partner.Slick wrote: ↑Thu Jan 26, 2023 11:12 pm This is the thing, Dogbert, and a brilliant point made. Pretty much 50% of my current group of friends are gay, I obviously 100% agree with gay marriage. I have 2 very good trans mates, 1 of which I like to think I have supported for over 15 years of her transition as a really good friend.
But I can’t quite square this circle, whilst also a huge supporter of women’s rights and women’s spaces. I never felt there was a coherent or relevant other side to gay rights, it was an obvious slam dunk to me, but this seems so much more complicated, and perhaps there has to be a loser. I don’t know.
Legenddpedin wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 9:09 am I took great joy in telling them that statistically their husbands were more likely to abuse their kids than a gay nursery nurse and how did they know that their husbands could be trusted. I also suggested that the private schools that many planned to send their kids to had a dubious reputation to say the least when it came to child abuse. To say I wasn't popular is an understatement!
It’s not about equality though is it?Tichtheid wrote: ↑Thu Jan 26, 2023 9:11 pm
The practicalities of the changes are set out in the FAQs I posted on the previous page.
On a day to day basis it affects things like pension arrangements and payments, death certificates etc - things non-trans people take for granted, it's about equality
https://www.scottishtrans.org/our-work/ ... 2/gra-faq/
You have to use ‘what if’ scenarios for legislation. There’s no other way of assessing if it’s a good law.dpedin wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 9:09 amThe thing that pisses me off is the use of the 'what if' type issues that then focus very specific and often rare extremes and often ignore the reality of the world we live in. When one of my kids was young and at nursery, about 25 years ago, a couple of middle class Edinburgh mums got a bee in their bonnet about one of the male nursery nurses being gay and putting their child at 'risk'. Meetings and emails arose, temperatures went up and it wasn't edifying to say the least. I was furious about the bigoted behaviour and some even wanted the poor nursery guy sacked. I took great joy in telling them that statistically their husbands were more likely to abuse their kids than a gay nursery nurse and how did they know that their husbands could be trusted. I also suggested that the private schools that many planned to send their kids to had a dubious reputation to say the least when it came to child abuse. To say I wasn't popular is an understatement! Over 90% of child abuse is perpetrated by a parent, relative or family friend and c90% of women are raped by someone they know usually an acquaintance or a partner.Slick wrote: ↑Thu Jan 26, 2023 11:12 pm This is the thing, Dogbert, and a brilliant point made. Pretty much 50% of my current group of friends are gay, I obviously 100% agree with gay marriage. I have 2 very good trans mates, 1 of which I like to think I have supported for over 15 years of her transition as a really good friend.
But I can’t quite square this circle, whilst also a huge supporter of women’s rights and women’s spaces. I never felt there was a coherent or relevant other side to gay rights, it was an obvious slam dunk to me, but this seems so much more complicated, and perhaps there has to be a loser. I don’t know.
In this big bad world no gov can legislate for every circumstance and the current debate around trans folk in Scotland is a good example of that - the myriad of individual circumstances is huge. However we have to accept that no matter what the law says there will be individual cases which will need more detailed examination and dealt with on a case by case basis. There will inevitably be some 'game playing' of the new laws y. individuals until they are bedded in. We know well that individuals who wish to do harm to kids or women or whoever will do whatever is required in order to get close to their targets - look at the historical cases paedophiles getting jobs as teachers, school janitors, social workers, care home workers, policemen, TV and radio hosts, etc. This is why we have vetting processes for anyone who has direct contact with children and vulnerable adults. All any gov can do is make laws that are the right thing to do, and in this case the Scot Gov has done that and had support from a cross party majority, then ensure it is implemented as properly and as fairly as possible and deal with the inevitable 'what ifs' type scenarios as they arise. History tells us it will settle down and become the norm pretty quickly.
Now, I don’t often talk in behalf on the trans lobby, but they tend to point out that gender and sexuality are very different things. Many trans women (last big study I saw said 60%) of trans women are attracted to women for example.Dogbert wrote: ↑Thu Jan 26, 2023 10:52 pm Whenever Society changes legislation that relate in anyway to sexual orientation , there always seems to be uproar.
When I grew up Homosexuality was still illegal in Scotland , although decriminalised in England and Wales in 1967 , the same legislation was only passed for Scotland in 1980.
There was uproar around Section 28 - whuch was only repealed in 2003- I remember the days of the Mail & Telegraph supporting Section 28 as a way to protect children from "predatory homosexuals" and for advocates seeking to "indoctrinate" vulnerable young people into homosexuality.
Same sex marriage legalised 2014 - uproar again from the usual suspects.
Frankly none of the above really impacted me as a white hetrosexual male - but I still see all the legalisation of Homosexualiry / Gay Marraige etc as good progressive moves , and society hasn't collapsed - as was predicted by certain sections. possibly the same sections that are in uproar today.-
The GRA was backed by all potical parties win the Scottish parliament , with the exception of the onservatives , and even then then a previous leader (Carlaw ) and the current Shadow Health Spokesmen - Dr. Sandesh Gulhane both voted in favour.
There are good reasons for this, but it’s probably best not to get off topic, so I’ll ask the obvious question- so how does changing gender recognition to make things easier solve this problem? It doesn’t improve pension equality at all does it?Tichtheid wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:09 am British women hit by gender pension gap at every stage of career
28 Jul 2021
Full press releases
Gender pension gap is 17% at the beginning of women’s careers and reaches 56% at retirement compared to men
Average pension pot of a woman at retirement (£10,000) found to be less than half that of a man (£21,000)
Stark pension gap even in female-dominated industries
https://group.legalandgeneral.com/en/ne ... -of-career
Random1 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:19 amThere are good reasons for this, but it’s probably best not to get off topic, so I’ll ask the obvious question- so how does changing gender recognition to make things easier solve this problem? It doesn’t improve pension equality at all does it?Tichtheid wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:09 am British women hit by gender pension gap at every stage of career
28 Jul 2021
Full press releases
Gender pension gap is 17% at the beginning of women’s careers and reaches 56% at retirement compared to men
Average pension pot of a woman at retirement (£10,000) found to be less than half that of a man (£21,000)
Stark pension gap even in female-dominated industries
https://group.legalandgeneral.com/en/ne ... -of-career
No need for insults - I’m a fairly smart guy trying to have a discussion about nuanced matters.Tichtheid wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:23 amRandom1 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:19 amThere are good reasons for this, but it’s probably best not to get off topic, so I’ll ask the obvious question- so how does changing gender recognition to make things easier solve this problem? It doesn’t improve pension equality at all does it?Tichtheid wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:09 am British women hit by gender pension gap at every stage of career
28 Jul 2021
Full press releases
Gender pension gap is 17% at the beginning of women’s careers and reaches 56% at retirement compared to men
Average pension pot of a woman at retirement (£10,000) found to be less than half that of a man (£21,000)
Stark pension gap even in female-dominated industries
https://group.legalandgeneral.com/en/ne ... -of-career
Either this is wilful or stupid.
The equality is the ease of procedure.
I have a friend who worked with MPs to draft a bill regarding trans people and pensions some years ago, that was why there would be "gender at birth" questions on some forms.
Occupational pensions have had gender equality in terms of their rules since 1990. The reason there is a 'gender pension gap' is because women get paid less, hence the contributions are lower. I'm not sure that self ID solves that problem.Tichtheid wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:23 amRandom1 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:19 amThere are good reasons for this, but it’s probably best not to get off topic, so I’ll ask the obvious question- so how does changing gender recognition to make things easier solve this problem? It doesn’t improve pension equality at all does it?Tichtheid wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:09 am British women hit by gender pension gap at every stage of career
28 Jul 2021
Full press releases
Gender pension gap is 17% at the beginning of women’s careers and reaches 56% at retirement compared to men
Average pension pot of a woman at retirement (£10,000) found to be less than half that of a man (£21,000)
Stark pension gap even in female-dominated industries
https://group.legalandgeneral.com/en/ne ... -of-career
Either this is wilful or stupid.
The equality is the ease of procedure.
I have a friend who worked with MPs to draft a bill regarding trans people and pensions some years ago, that was why there would be "gender at birth" questions on some forms.
Survivor benefits and lump sums aren't affected by gender identity.Tichtheid wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:59 am and the point about equality of process brought about by the GRC is in things like being able to put your gender down on marriage certificates.
The pensions issue comes about in terms of survivor benefits and lump sums etc.
This doesn't affect many people, but again, the sky is falling in according to some.
robmatic wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 12:04 pmSurvivor benefits and lump sums aren't affected by gender identity.Tichtheid wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:59 am and the point about equality of process brought about by the GRC is in things like being able to put your gender down on marriage certificates.
The pensions issue comes about in terms of survivor benefits and lump sums etc.
This doesn't affect many people, but again, the sky is falling in according to some.
And you’re clearly identifying as menstruating at the moment.Tichtheid wrote: ↑Thu Jan 26, 2023 9:29 pmSlick wrote: ↑Thu Jan 26, 2023 9:24 pmThe FAQ’s you keep leaning on don’t seem to cover when public opinion changes implementationTichtheid wrote: ↑Thu Jan 26, 2023 9:11 pm
The practicalities of the changes are set out in the FAQs I posted on the previous page.
On a day to day basis it affects things like pension arrangements and payments, death certificates etc - things non-trans people take for granted, it's about equality
https://www.scottishtrans.org/our-work/ ... 2/gra-faq/
ffs, I was merely answering your fucking question as to what the point of the bill was.
There's no need to be a wanker about it.
To be fair it needs quoting because that is an appalling over reaction to the situation and the police should be ashamed. That's what often angers me more than anything else about this debate, its the inability for all sides to be reasonable and the total overreaction and faux fucking outrage. The school offering support to grown bloody adults who have been offered a leaflet, FFS, absolute twats. And you can just imagine all the bloody bollocks being spouted on that school Whatsapp group as they all try an outdo each other with their indignation.inactionman wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:20 am apols for quoting a post from 3 days back, just catching up on thread.
Yup provides something for those so inclined to point at and claim that they're being silenced.Blackmac wrote: ↑Sat Jan 28, 2023 2:44 pmTo be fair it needs quoting because that is an appalling over reaction to the situation and the police should be ashamed. That's what often angers me more than anything else about this debate, its the inability for all sides to be reasonable and the total overreaction and faux fucking outrage. The school offering support to grown bloody adults who have been offered a leaflet, FFS, absolute twats. And you can just imagine all the bloody bollocks being spouted on that school Whatsapp group as they all try an outdo each other with their indignation.inactionman wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:20 am apols for quoting a post from 3 days back, just catching up on thread.
Which was exactly what happenedBlackmac wrote: ↑Sat Jan 28, 2023 2:44 pmTo be fair it needs quoting because that is an appalling over reaction to the situation and the police should be ashamed. That's what often angers me more than anything else about this debate, its the inability for all sides to be reasonable and the total overreaction and faux fucking outrage. The school offering support to grown bloody adults who have been offered a leaflet, FFS, absolute twats. And you can just imagine all the bloody bollocks being spouted on that school Whatsapp group as they all try an outdo each other with their indignation.inactionman wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:20 am apols for quoting a post from 3 days back, just catching up on thread.
Sounds like they shouldn't be around people generally, but definitely not among women, the vast majority of whom, this person would be able to overpower due to sex differences.Blackmac wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 10:01 am Tiffany Scott: Call to block trans prisoner's move to women's jail https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-64438457
This prick is considered one of the most dangerous and unpredictable prisoners in the Scottish prison system. Even the most hardened nutcases in the male prisons avoid him like the plague. I'm sure he will be a delight in a women's prison.
Apologies "persons who identify as female" prison.
It's odd that the SG had clearly personally intervened in the rapists prison allocation however we are now back to the "Scottish Prison Service decision" etc, nonsense.sockwithaticket wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 11:02 amSounds like they shouldn't be around people generally, but definitely not among women, the vast majority of whom, this person would be able to overpower due to sex differences.Blackmac wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 10:01 am Tiffany Scott: Call to block trans prisoner's move to women's jail https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-64438457
This prick is considered one of the most dangerous and unpredictable prisoners in the Scottish prison system. Even the most hardened nutcases in the male prisons avoid him like the plague. I'm sure he will be a delight in a women's prison.
Apologies "persons who identify as female" prison.
I suspect it's pretty accurate and is a perfect example of this madness. There is something deeply ironical that women's' rights are actually being dangerously reversed in circumstances like this because they are no longer as fashionably edgy by those so desperate to be seen as right on.Calculon wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 2:52 pm Pretty disgraceful if this is accurate
https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/ex-p ... n=sharebar
This was all so predictable and really should have been considered by the SG and included in any discussion/law on trans rights and issues.Blackmac wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 11:08 amIt's odd that the SG had clearly personally intervened in the rapists prison allocation however we are now back to the "Scottish Prison Service decision" etc, nonsense.sockwithaticket wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 11:02 amSounds like they shouldn't be around people generally, but definitely not among women, the vast majority of whom, this person would be able to overpower due to sex differences.Blackmac wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 10:01 am Tiffany Scott: Call to block trans prisoner's move to women's jail https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-64438457
This prick is considered one of the most dangerous and unpredictable prisoners in the Scottish prison system. Even the most hardened nutcases in the male prisons avoid him like the plague. I'm sure he will be a delight in a women's prison.
Apologies "persons who identify as female" prison.
Maybe they’re worried their kids will be affected by the leaflet droppers outside the gates?Blackmac wrote: ↑Sat Jan 28, 2023 2:44 pmTo be fair it needs quoting because that is an appalling over reaction to the situation and the police should be ashamed. That's what often angers me more than anything else about this debate, its the inability for all sides to be reasonable and the total overreaction and faux fucking outrage. The school offering support to grown bloody adults who have been offered a leaflet, FFS, absolute twats. And you can just imagine all the bloody bollocks being spouted on that school Whatsapp group as they all try an outdo each other with their indignation.inactionman wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 11:20 am apols for quoting a post from 3 days back, just catching up on thread.
It feels like it’s complicated by virtue of the stance the newer trans lobby take. If you get rid of ‘a trans woman or man is a woman or man’ then the whole thing is pretty simple. Use pronouns to be polite, but the repercussions for dead name go, access to women’s areas go.Big D wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 8:09 pmThis was all so predictable and really should have been considered by the SG and included in any discussion/law on trans rights and issues.Blackmac wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 11:08 amIt's odd that the SG had clearly personally intervened in the rapists prison allocation however we are now back to the "Scottish Prison Service decision" etc, nonsense.sockwithaticket wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 11:02 am
Sounds like they shouldn't be around people generally, but definitely not among women, the vast majority of whom, this person would be able to overpower due to sex differences.
It is a pretty complicated topic (trans rights) but the two cases that have been public recently should have been known as something that needed considered.
https://www.theguardian.com/sport/2023/ ... law-changeThe Equality and Human Rights Commission has taken the unprecedented step of criticising UK Athletics for its “inaccurate” interpretation of the law after UKA announced plans for a new transgender policy.
The EHRC’s intervention came hours after UKA said it wanted to ban transgender women from female events on fairness grounds – but it would be too “risky” to do so unless the government changes the law.
However the EHRC, the body responsible for promoting and upholding equality and human rights ideals and laws across England, Scotland and Wales, said that it had told UKA that it was wrong, and that such a ban was justified, beforehand.
It said it had made clear that section 195 of the 2010 Equality Act allows sports to restrict competition in the female category on safety and fairness grounds, a position government sources also reiterated.
“We reached out to UK Athletics and offered to discuss the legal advice underpinning their statement,” the EHRC said. “We are disappointed that they have chosen to publicise their inaccurate advice and we would urge all organisations to consult our website which explains equality law and how it relates to these issues.”